Best Baby Gifts - Tried and True
/Giving gifts is one of the more rewarding things we get to do in this life, especially for those whose love language is gift giving. Finding the perfect gift for the littles in your life can be a challenge, but rewarding knowing you’ve given something useful appreciated by both child and parent.
I’ve found myself turning more frequently to the online lists of gift ideas for certain age groups compiled by New York Times, Parents, Forbes, etc. I definitely vet the list thoroughly and only actually pursue a few ideas, but they’ve given great ideas that I otherwise never would have thought of.
As I had my first child and family and friends were having babies, I started to keep a running list of great baby gifts, a cheat sheet of sorts for gift giving, things I loved receiving and things people loved receiving. I’m writing them down since I know I can so quickly forget what I appreciated in certain stages of parenting. Now I’m sharing this list with you, for those looking for new tried and true ideas.
A Note About What You Won’t Find On This List
This list won’t include too many basic or essential items, since those are fairly obvious. Of course those make great gifts, but chances are if you’re turning to an online compiled list of gift ideas, it means you need some new ideas, right?
Best Baby Gifts
Every Day Items:
Diapers/wipes - yes, this is a basic necessity, but it will definitely be used! You could also consider pampering them with some quality diapers and instead of the usual Pampers or Huggies.
Egg night light - this is an egg shaped night light, wire-free and touch activated. It’s portable, and brightness can be adjusted from very dim to very bright, perfect for breastfeeding and nighttime diaper changes. Double tap to turn on and off, long tap to dim or brighten, and press the logo to change colors (cold or warm light). There is a charging pad, but I find I only need to charge it every 3-4 days. I was gifted this for my third child and wish I had had it with all three of my babies! It’s not quite as techy as, say, the Hatch night light, but I prefer the egg night light. No app or internet required.
Natural/Organic hygiene products - more every day products, but the beauty of these kinds of gifts is that they can always be used, even if the new mom starts with a small stash. It’s especially nice if you can find a trusted, natural/organic brand that new mom will feel good about using on her newborn. It can feel overwhelming as a new mom, trying to find the best, affordable products for your kids while wading through all of the marketing and greenwashing. Some brands I love include: Earth Mama’s Organics, Weleda, Mustela, as well as brands that I’m hearing good things about: Nature Sustained, California Baby, Shoosha Baby, and Attitude Baby. Think shampoo, body wash, lotion, diaper rash cream, sunscreen for when baby gets older.
Baby Carrier - good to have with a first baby, essential for subsequent children. I highly recommend the Ergo Baby carrier. It can be used with babies from 7-45lbs with no separate inserts needed. It can be used for 4 different carry positions. Having a wrap carrier, such as a Moby wrap or a Solly wrap, is also really nice, mostly for the first 3ish months to hold baby close and cozy. Wraps take a bit more time to get on, and aren’t usually used for as long as the more supportive carriers can be. Each mama has their preference. I had both kinds, and used both with all 3 of my babies. If I could only have one kind, I would definitely choose the easier buckle-on carriers like the Ergo Baby Carrier over wrap carriers.
Boppy Nursing Pillow - I know not everyone loves nursing pillows, but I absolutely loved mine. Many baby products are advertised as being able to be used through different stages, and nursing pillows are one of the few that I felt were actually useful through different stages. I used mine extensively through the first 3 months for breastfeeding, and noticed the amount of time I’d use it gradually decrease after. From just about the time babies are born you can use them for supervised tummy time, support for laying on their backs for short periods (they can see what’s going on around them easier rather than staring up at the ceiling and getting bored), and later at 4-6 months for support while sitting up.
I’ve tried 3 different kinds of nursing pillows, and while all 3 were definitely better than nothing, not all are made equally. The Haakaa nursing pillow is similar in shape to the Boppy pillow, but it was a bit lumpier, and a little flatter and wider, not offering quite as much support. The “My Breast Friend” Pillow was a unique shape and actually buckled behind mom to keep it in position better, but I felt it was a bit flat and not as comfortable for baby or mom. Boppy wins all around, with quick on and off, thick pillow for good support, and even a plastic case to keep it clean in if you want to store it or transport it.
You might also consider buying an extra cover for the pillow. I didn’t have an extra cover until my second baby, but I can tell you, it was extra nice to have a change-out for all the different liquids that leak! There many different knock off brands available with different patterns to choose from. I’ve only used the Boppy brand covers, so I can’t vouch for the off-brand. Boppy offers some organic, 100% cotton covers.
Books:
High Contrast Baby Books - this is a great first book for infants, starting from birth up through around 6 months. Young babies can’t see far nor much color, but they see and are often mesmerized by high contrast images. I was given a hand-me-down from a friend in Italy and all three of my children enjoyed this book, especially my first. It’s great for tummy time and play time in those younger months.
Car Car Truck Jeep - this book was gifted my first son for his first Christmas and it became a favorite for both of us. It’s a board book with plenty of vehicles going about their day sung to the tune of “Baa Baa Black Sheep”. By the time my son was 4 months old I’d just pick up the book and he’d start smiling, giggling on his favorite pages. My second son also adores this book. He had it memorized by the time he was around 18 months old, haha. Kids love, and retain, singing so well.
Pout Pout Fish - of the hundreds of new books that I’ve read to my children over the last few years, this is a stand out. It has good rhythm, a cute story with a twist, and keeps the toddlers through preschoolers alike engaged with a repeating rhyme that the littles love and bigger words that keep bigger kids engaged. I thoroughly enjoy reading it, even over and over again.
Peek a Who? - this a book that involves peek a boo, and despite being extremely simple, is a favorite for babies and toddlers.
I Love You Like No Otter - I tend to lean towards humorous/entertaining books over sentimental/cheesy books, but I have to say this is a cute one. Yes, it is a little cheesy, but the images and the sayings are all very sweet and enjoyable for kids and adults alike.
Happy Baby Books - these books are like magic for babies and kids. It’s the kind of book that, before I had kids myself, I never would have gifted to someone or understood why babies like them. But babies love pictures of other babies, pictures of animals, pictures of objects, and these books include all of those things and more. Kids love looking at them on their own, and of course, having you read them over and over, even more. There are several different versions of these, and all are great. I bought several of these used to keep in the car, in the diaper bag, so that wherever we were, we always had one on hand, and no worries about them getting dropped or beat up.
Toys:
Stacking Cups - some baby toys withstand the test of time. Beloved by babies, beloved by parents. They don’t take up much room, affordable, don’t make noise, and good for baby’s development.
Teething toys - giving a baby something they love to chew on is so satisfying. Some favorite teething toys I’ve seen my own kids, nieces and nephews, and other children all go ga-ga over (sorry, too much?) include these Nuby 3-stage teethers (the stages are bit of nonsense, all 3 are great at any point), these fruit teethers, these Itzy Ritzy water-filled dinosaurs perfect for the freezer, and these tools
Stuffed animals - while common gifts, there are certain ones that are just really good ones. Choose ones that you like, or use the ones you like best that you receive as gifts, because they will likely grow with your baby and always remind you of their babyhood. Stuffies can in and of themselves become a priceless gift in this way. Some favorites of ours that are still available include this fox (also in part a teething toy although my kids didn’t do much chewing on him), any of the Palm Pals, any of the Squishmallows (a bit cumbersome for babies but they grow into them quickly!), and this super soft pink bunny (actually gifted to my son but both my son and daughter love it). A word to the wise: once your child starts to become attached to a certain lovey, buy a duplicate. That way, if anything ever happens to it, you’ll have an extra on hand in case you can’t get the original back.
Clothes:
H&M - still my favorite place to buy baby clothes, hands down. They’re cute, they hold up well, and they tend to run big which is huge (no pun intended) if you have big babies. The prices have gone way up since I first started shopping their baby clothes (hello pre2020 prices), but if you shop their sales, it turns out quite affordable. Plus they have big sales that go up to 70% off a few times a year, as well as very regular sales. Every few weeks they have flash sales where the entire site goes 25% off, and at Thanksgiving you can get the whole site 30% off.
H&M baby socks - I know I just mentioned H&M, but their socks get a special mention because they’re some of the better socks I’ve tried for babies. Especially the terry socks with grippies. When I first started buying their socks I thought they were basically perfect (nice colors, comfy, and STAY ON), but I’ve since found not all their socks are made equal. I recommend the terry socks!
Lou Lou and Company - new moms can get inundated with baby clothes, so I’ve always thought it is nice to gift (or get!) just a few quality pieces rather than an overload of cheaper pieces/brands. Lou Lou is one of the companies that makes quality, practical baby clothing. The baby gowns are wonderful, especially for quick diaper changes, sleeping, and look nice enough for photoshoots. They’re not cheap, running $30+ per nightgown or set, but even just having 1-2 is great.
Caden Lane - another brand that makes really nice baby gowns and clothing. Pricier, just like Lou Lou, but makes a wonderful gift.
Kyte Baby - bamboo baby clothing that is light, stretchy, and super comfortable. They have clothing, sleep sacks, and more. I know some people whose kids live in these!
Zutano slippers - the nicest baby slippers out there, in my opinion. They’re soft, comfortable, grippy for new walkers, wash well, and last a long time. I was gifted a pair with my first, and we used them so much I wanted a second pair. When I saw the price I decided to go with the more affordable Hudson slippers. That was a mistake. Zutano slippers have snap closures. Hudson Baby has velcro, and it makes all the difference. Babies can quickly figure out how to undo the velcro, and poof, baby won’t keep slippers on anymore. Especially sitting in a carseat where their feet are conveniently in reach. A snap is secure enough that baby can’t get them undone as easily. What’s the use of slippers if baby won’t keep them on? I’m all for saving money, but this is one spot where I definitely recommend the nicer item. If the new mama is on a budget, do her a favor and get her the Zutano slippers. :)








